Envision the world where individuals have brought a vast change in themselves and not forcing others to change.

The initial step is to change yourself- See how simple it is. It’s far superior to transforming another person. The most amusing thing today is that we say that our brain is not in our control and we attempt to control others psyches and identities. Doesn’t that sound senseless


Let’s talk about Ladies Safety! Regard Women. Men of India have been taught to show superiority over women. This fact makes a big impact on the minds of young ones. So, people have to foster capable individuals by having a strong and very positive influence on the kids, on the next generation. The young ones have to be taught to respect women, to uphold what is right and what is humane. Rather than showing them a picture of suppressing women, dominating over women, they have to be taught that women must be respected otherwise their families will never grow and develop. Where women are not respected there that land never develops.

Moreover, each young lady ought to have the Right to Live, Right to Education and Right to Marry (no respect executing).

Let us look at another issue- Debasement in India. How many of us are confronting the challenge of demonetization and it’s after effects? I think no one can escape that situation. But to actualize the dream of the big leaders of India, we need to go through such painful times. However harsh the reality is, once we face it, it gives us immense power to regenerate that old spirit in us and rekindles the hope of winning. To win is very important in life, otherwise, we would never be able to help our society grow and will allow the negative forces to take possession of our bodies which would eventually harm others.  It will be a sin committed by us then.

Good governance is the need of the hour. Many people are critics of the present government. But they have forgotten that even previous governments were not deserving of appreciation and acknowledgment. So why catch hold of just one person or his government. What is the use? Rather, we should be encouraged to do our best and bring the best government through our wise decisions during the election time. that is the peak time when we should work on deciding the best for our country, but we are actually not executing our responsibilities. Then why do we expect our government to be responsible?

It is needless to say humanitarian work and service to all our citizens is immensely required.  If it comes to the elderly people, we need to begin by deciding the correct age of retirement for the government officials and take care of them properly. The scene is just the reverse in the present times. For their own pensions, the elderly have to run up and down.

Then the black money has to be curbed and the new inflow of black money has to be blocked. There is an urgent need for stringent laws and regulations. Their strict implementation is very essential.

Population control can never be neglected. It is an issue that needs further study, research, and solutions. Proper framing of the laws again is the need of the time. seepage and sewage are the two most important entities to be worked at with full vigor. Broken streets and potholes have to be covered up with concrete material. Drinking water facilities have to be improvised. The agrarian economy has to be boosted with all kinds of development. The power supply is yet another daily requirement which has to be secured for the general public.

Reservation in government jobs is a menace or a boon, it has to be resolved now. The ratio of police to the people is ought to be balanced. It has an imbalance ratio at present all over the country. Regulation of greenery cannot be done away with.  Apart from these issues, poverty alleviation and housing program for the poor requires complete support. For this and other issues, moral values need to be inculcated in the Indians, which they have forgotten.

And all this needs a perfect administration. It will channelize the energy of youth in the right direction and will give them appropriate employment opportunities. then comes the issue of utilization of renewable energy like wind, water, and solar energy.

Coming back to the government, a thorough investigation needed to be done on the improper use of government facilities by the government officials. Al the luxuries of such people have to be checked and controlled. Even the legislators have to check the language used. They might use derogatory language. More issues to be dealt with are – discrimination on any basis, hunger alleviation program using 1098, growth and development of smaller cities.  Then, all the street creatures must be protected. Technological advancement has to be worked upon urgently.

The courtrooms are filled therefore mobile courts or courts that provide immediate solutions are required. The mental makeup of the Indians which is usually the “Chalta hai” attitude, that means “let it be” attitude has to change. The Indians need to change themselves and a proper regulation is required for each thing. Why the people are not developing themselves may not be answered easily but that is the primary reason for India’s backwardness in every field. Simple putting all these factors makes India vulnerable to world’s mockery which not every Indian can tolerate. The rest of the Indians are just not bothered, they are only bothered about “my name, my fame, my money, my family, my children, my job, my career, etc…”.  This “My” is not getting dissolved. Until this “My” is dissolved, no more development would be done.

A crucial work is to spread the India culture like never before. It is not to convert or propagate but it is the high time when Indian culture needs to be sung out and all the Indians must be made to realize that they have forgotten an important phase of their life. Our culture is our heritage and we must respect and uphold it.

© Sheela Joby





















Museum of Toilets

Museum of wax models, the museum of artifacts and antique articles, the museum of arms and weapons and many such museums are already prevalent in the world. But nowhere has anyone seen a museum of toilets, which was established in the year 1992 by Shri Bindeshwar Pathak. The museum is located in Palam, New Delhi. Those who have heard and read about this for the first time must be questioning the very idea of opening such a museum. The story of the museum of toilets begins with an idea to exhibit the varieties of toilets from all around the world and from ancient times.


Image source- sulabhtoiletmuseum.org

India has seen growth in many areas, but the cleanliness target in India is still lagging behind. To encourage people to take up good sanitation habits, Dr. Pathak started a program called Sulabh International, which helps in the construction and maintenance of toilets in the rural and semi-urban areas in the country. He also founded the Museum of toilets that showcase the toilet systems of all many countries of the world. Embassies of many countries were approached through letters for fetching the information about the toilet systems in their respective countries and also if any, information was available regarding ancient toilet systems in their countries.

A lot of search-research was conducted to establish the museum and bring in ample information about the toilets. After three years of consistent research, sufficient information was collected in the form of books, magazines, photographs, etc. each information is placed chronologically and creatively. Some models are also placed which depict the toilets of various styles and country culture. The rare toilet systems used around the world from 2500 B.C are depicted here with the help of models and pictures. Chamber pots, bidets toilet furniture, privies, water closets from 1145 to the present times are shown in the museum. The efforts of depicting these toilet systems of countries all around the world also exhibit the technology of both present and past times, social customs related toilet, sanitary conditions, toilet etiquettes, administrative and legislative decisions related to a toilet of all the times.

Toilets systems of the past times

People would be surprised to know that there were also poems written that were related to the toilet. The museum has such a collection of poems. The English people were used to the toilets when they would go on camping and hunting. Such toilet commodes were made up in the shape of the treasure chest and they were mobile commodes, specially designed for the time of camping and hunting. It also shows how toilet systems worked before the times when water closets were not invented. The most surprising feature of the toilets of the past times was that some of them, especially belonging to the big and royal clans, were ornamentally decorated.

In fact, the Roman emperors would use a toilet made up of gold and silver. The first use and invention of the flush system are depicted here. The flush system was invented by Sir John Harrington, who was one of the courtiers of Queen Elizabeth I. the evolution of toilet systems and technological developments in it are shown by various region, like Lothal, from the Indus Valley Civilization. Significant changes and development of the sewerage systems and drainage systems of the world are also shown.  The early developments in the technology of Europe are shown. This museum has been included in the list of world’s ten weirdest museums.


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Aims and objectives of establishing the museum

The knowledge provided through the museum would help sanitation experts to deal with the modern civilization’s problems of sanitation. It would also help the manufacturers of toilets systems and equipment to develop the technology further to address the needs of the modern civilization and the future generations. A major part belongs to the increase of knowledge of the researchers who gets to know about the technology of the past era, the drainage system, the kind of social customs regarding sanitation etc. for the students it is of immense help, as it shows them the trends of the past times and early developments in the sanitation. Policy makers are benefitted in the way of getting knowledge about how to administer and legislate in the case of sanitation.

Group visits

People who like to visit in groups, if they inform the management of the museum beforehand, then the group is provided with complete guidance about the museum. Also, they are guided through the tour of the museum with a trained volunteer for the specific interests of the groups, including sign interpretations.

The development of the toilet system

There has not been much study conducted on toilet systems anywhere in the world, due to inhibitions like – this is something menial, does not require attention, etc. though, the founder of the Museum of toilets has confirmed the views of certain activists and social reformers of the past times and present times who kept on urging people to use proper sanitation facilities. Such scholars also kept urging to their respective governments about the need to develop proper facilities for public toilets. In Roman civilization and Harappan civilization, toilet facilities were very well-developed, which has been confirmed from archaeological excavations. There have been stories about the cures of diseases through human and animal excreta. How can the governments and people think this issue is a trivial issue when it is of such importance. A Proper system of defecation is directly connected with hygiene.

If the hygiene of any country is to be maintained, then both public toilets and household toilets are to be developed. The population of every country has faced problems of open defecations and government has come out with solutions as well. India has also faced this problem for a long period. During the British rule, India was considered as an unhygienic country because open defecation had become a norm here. Moreover, people were not willing to accept change in this habit. Now has the time come when India should change this habit by rooting out this problem from its nib. Sulabh International has been successful in meeting the challenge of development of toilets all over the country, specifically in rural areas. Still, a lot has to be improved as the impoverished population in some remote areas has not been able to free itself from the unhygienic habits of open defecation due to various factors.

When looked upon from a larger context, it is not only India that has been facing such issues, but there have been many countries in the world that have faced the problem of open defecation in the past and are now enabled to live a healthier life by accepting the hygienic trends of sanitation.

© Sheela Joby

Zorbing in Bangalore: the newest adventure activities to have captured the interest of adventure lovers.


Rejuvenation is the key to de-stress yourself

With a workaholic schedule, the service and business class people barely take out time for their recreation with family or friends. Bangalore is one such city that is dotted with various spots for short vacation along with adventurous activities. There are some places in and around Bangalore for the people to explore their real self. These places are perfect as a stress buster for young and old. It is necessary to reduce stress else it might lead to a migraine, depression, work holism and lack of interest in any of the social events. With so many adventurous activities offered by the city, Zorbing is gaining more attention from the whole.


Understanding the need of such a recreational place for all the age groups, Zorbing in Bangalore: the newest adventure activity to have captured the interest of adventure lovers, is the best way to keep your stress at bay. Situated amidst the cyber city of Bangalore, zorbing is a new way to explore and enjoy adventurous water sport within your city and at very affordable prices. One need not travel outside the city to enjoy the water sports in a water amusement park. The peak season is the hot, scorching summer season varying from May to July when the kids too are able and excited for the adventure trip in their local area. It is an opportunity to explore the newest water sports to be introduced in your city at very feasible cost. Bangalore is the first in India to introduce such a sports café for corporate and business sector.  Zorbing in Bangalore: the newest adventure activities to have captured the interest of adventure lovers, is running successfully since its establishment.

Instead of planning a whole picnic or outing, one can go for zorbing sports club which is open for 24 – hours at your service and charges you a nominal price of 120. Advance bookings are also made to manage the crowd at the peak season and time. They also offer special packages for family, corporate colleagues, friends, and couples on various occasions to attract the audience to their hub. A zorbing is a recreation or sport of rolling downhill inside a huge globe-riding ball, which looks like a sphere or orbit generally made of transparent plastic. The size varies according to the person.  Zorbing is generally performed on a gentle slope, but can also be done on a level surface in pubs and clubs around Bangalore or any other city to infatuate public for leisure activities.


The place is made across lush green lawns with water pool all around its place. Nowadays people have started organizing corporate conferences, meetings and gathering at such place to rejuvenate and discuss the dealings and engagements at such an outing where they can plan their strategies as well as relish out their stress.

  • Feel the ultimate thrill and fun of the activity and refresh your inner-self amidst the cool waters and lush green lawns for outdoor sports.
  • Participate and enjoy the amazing activity of water zorbing and related water sports under the guidance of professional experts.
  • Rock and roll inside the ball on water and improve your body balance and flexibility.
  • Fresh feel after a hectic weekend to start way with a completely new spirit toward work.

Explore your inner self by kick-starting your day with jumbo water ball adventure at your nearest sports café


It is said to be an amazing activity where you will be put inside a giant transparent ball with oxygen pores enabled, in the water and you need to roll on the water with the ball. This all-new pleasure sport has gained immense popularity in Bangalore and rest parts of India in the previous years. Avoiding the usual amusement parks and gaming zone in the water parks, try this wonderful activity for sure. The sports are imitated under the guidance of professional experts to have fun and enjoy. It helps children and adults to learn to balance themselves inside the ball and roll it over.

So, what are you waiting for? Book a ticket right away and de-stress yourself with cool waters and adventure nearest at your doorstep and be revitalized without spending a ransom amount as you may spend on a week vacation. Feel the ultimate fun in waters and soak in the cool blues in this hot unbearable heat. De-stress and refresh yourself, breaking away from your pressurized and hectic schedule at your workplace.

© Sheela Joby

Your Ideas and My Ideas

Love is all you need

Where there is love, there is conflict too, to balance the relationship to its benchmark. But not always the conflict seems pleasing. There are times when these petty conflicts turn a lifelong relationship into a disaster.

A healthy relationship not only needs love to grow but also other emotional and rational factors to ignite the fire within. The couples nowadays far more believe in love marriages, as you get to spend the rest of your lives with your beloved. Here you know how your partner is going to react or handle the situation. The understanding and bond of love are consistent to lead ahead in their relationship. They support and respect each other’s decisions and opinions for the betterment of their future plans.


The point is how they handle their misunderstandings not even letting their shadows know about it. The effect of conflicting relationship goes straight to their children, family, and friends. There are many facets in one’s life that might be distressful and of agony. The fear of losing the compatibility with the partner also leads to offensive thoughts and imagination. The couples should keep indulged themselves in pampering each other by presenting gifts, taking for a date or vacation, which not release the stress but also deepens their bond.


The conflicts they undergo

The conflicts among the couples don’t arise randomly. It is the result of mishandling of the other aspects of life. These factors might comprise of –

  • Money –it is said monetary influence leaves the high impact on marital status. But it is not completely true. The partner needs to focus on other important issues like future security, family planning, long-term investments to earn future benefits. The couples should lead as a team to pool in their joint income for future perspective to spice up their present and relax in their retirement phase. Money should be just a number and not more than that. It should be considered while analysis your love status.
  • Work – at this point in time, everyone finds for a working beau to contribute for the wellness of their married life. But the couples need to understand the flinches they experience due to change in shifts time to time depending on the nature of the job profile. The couples need to adjust according to their routine and set their timetable in such a manner that they take out spare time for each other.

There should be a clear connection between them to acknowledge each other’s work priorities and time management for the same to avoid any sort of conflict.


  • Children – the big question arises who will look after the kids? Normally, we get to see mothers or wives look after children and household chores. But nowadays females are working hard to establish their own identity and feed their children more efficiently. In most of the cases, the women going out and earning stay back at home and take care of the kids and house. It is time to break old stereotypes and let them go out and work for themselves and their family.

Men should also play a keen and equal part in grooming their kids and preparing them for the future. Partners should understand and respect each other’s decision to move ahead in life without a crease. They both should be equally responsible for their child and his activities.


Handling the stress with ease

  • Differences can be tackled through proper monitoring and space are given to each other.
  • Couples should talk about the problem immediately before it becomes a big problem in your relationship.
  • Couples need to express love, affection, and gratitude towards each other to show how much they care about them. This can be made easy by presenting flowers, preparing favorite dinner, romantic candle light dinner and walks.
  • You can always talk about any frustration or work-related problem you are dealing with. This, in turn, will firm your trust over each other. Your partner will help you to sort your stress and build a love relationship.
  • In a healthy relationship, the couples more likely respect and consider each other’s perspective and help them in decision – making.

© Sheela Joby

Time shall fly, but memories last forever

Miss you Dad, I remember those days when you were on this earth.


“There is a unique mirth and joy in her voice and a feeling of distinctive pride in him. Words may be hard to come but the eyes say it all. The delights across their faces are perhaps the best thanks one could ever imagine. As they stand side by side in front of the cake, Dad nudges mom to step forward and blow the candles. Mom looks so cute wearing the colorful birthday cap. Delirious sounds of “Happy Birthday” fill the room and she so coyly blows the candle. The moment when Dad and Mom share the piece of cake, brought tears into my eyes. I hug them as we squeeze into the longest family hug I could ever remember.”

Every occasion is special in its own right, but some moments are much more special than others. They embody scores of varied emotions, hundreds of sweetened memories. We always cherish our childhood birthday parties when parents used to host a gala party and invite all neighborhoods to join in the celebrations. We felt so loved and special during every single second then; the prince and princesses of our kingdom. Today, seeing the King and Queen of our lives blush under all the attention, life feels so accomplishing. Every single selfie taken today shall be posted on Facebook and Instagram for the entire world to see. No inhibitions, no limitations. All members of our global family who could not make it to the venue, witness the moments live through large screen video screens. The multicolor balloons and ribbons, classy decorations and the floating foam add luster to the whole event. A children’s booth, snacks bar, hot chocolate and coffee corner, etc. are some of the extraordinary services offered by Xyz… Spectacular dining experiences with specially crafted flavors, Xyz… offers a wide variety of cocktails and cuisines ranging from the traditional Indian spiced-curry delicacies to the favorite Chinese food.

Highly courteous and ever smiling staff made the occasion a moment to cherish forever. Time shall fly, but memories last forever

© Sheela Joby



Everyone might have heard Freedom of expression as a universal right, Honestly, Most of us don’t even recognize the exact meaning of Freedom of expression as well as the term “universal”? I can begin this by way of greeting people all around. How are you my dear typically male chauvinistic society who is trying day by day to engulf my individuality? You may be wondering why society is being related in the beginning. Why wonder? This is what we do. All the women out there, their first concern is “What will people say”. Society cannot capture my thoughts. I won’t allow it till it understands my capability.  We all are capable of doing right for ourselves; all we need is a proper form of motivation, which in my case may be named as Fuzia.com

Wondering, what it is? The wait will be soon over.

So, freedom of expression, huh! What’s it first? The right to freely express one’s opinions and thoughts without being scared of landing in trouble… it is this freedom which makes a country like India, the world’s best democracy. However, you get the concept that it is not truly established. Like ideas on paper and ideas in exercise, each of the ideas is distinctive. With the operation of Freedom of expression comes the excellent age-old operation of the patriarchal society which not only takes away the freedom of choice but also freedom of expression.  Fortunately for us, not all are stars against us; the only constant is working its way through it. Thanks to modernization, globalization and the world of the internet in the form of a global platform, Fuzia.com for playing the crucial role in giving women a chance to express beyond the boundaries set by so-called morally upright patriarchal society.

Fuzia.com is an exceptional creative platform for women around the globe to freely express their ideas, opinions, stories,  photographs, articles, fashion, art, craft, videos, collages anything which expresses their feelings, desires suppressed or repressed by unnatural causes.

The core team behind the success of Fuzia.com 

Core Team

The aim behind building Fuzia was to give women a chance to associate with gifted personalities having similar interests crosswise over the globe and fabricate significant inspiring associations.

Fuzia.com is a platform for all, as it gives many alternatives such as:

  • Everybody is proficient, some are excellent writers, a few are high-quality photographers, some are good performers, a few are skilled in the field of artwork, it is their skills, pursuits, and thoughts that lead them to be awesome in a unique way and Fuzia.com is that one store in which you can exhibit your expertise free of cost.
  • Everything comes at a price, well not at Fuzia.com, as the virtual lounge of Fuzia.com helps you to learn a skill of your choice and boost up your self-confidence.
  • Out of work, not a problem as Fuzia.com can help you polish your skills and look for right and safe work for you.
  • All the loners out there can easily connect with people all around the globe. They can also explore a new nation’s culture via a talent-oriented Fuziaites.

So, all the women out there, what I intend to say is that women of every age, color, caste, creed or country nothing matters, all you need a talent which is an innate ability which everyone is born with. My talent is playing with words. There are people who are still very much unaware of their talent but don’t be disheartened ever.  You can quickly switch to contests and campaigns held at Fuzia.com. You can engage in any competition and get your hands on amazing gift vouchers or prizes.

You can also be part of latest trends like #metoo, express your opinions, you can also get your article to publish, join an internship at Fuzia.com, you can write a quote, appear in Fuzia.com Shoutout box, and post a video, picture collages, story as well as many other entertaining activities.

I know finding a safe social media portal is a tough task, but not to worry ladies, Fuzia.com is both safe as well as a secure option, unlike my Facebook buddy.  We all talk about Women empowerment, but you know the only way to empower women is to give them a chance. If you go with the latest stats, you will find the scarcity of opportunity and the lack of people taking real steps. But we can take our first step which will help our daughters, mothers, sisters, wives, and grandmothers to empower. That step would be enrolling into Fuzia.com.

Fuzia.com has taken a real appreciable step by making them available with a platform to voice their opinions. I would like to thank Fuzia.com for opening up such opportunities.

I would like to express my gratitude to some of the people. The primary person, to start with, is the founder of Fuzia.com, Riya Sinha, and the women behind this exquisite concept.


The next person would be the Director cum Co-founder, Shraddha Varma for the amazing control of the Fuzians.


My sincere thanks to the Head of Marketing and Public Relations, Sakshi Shrivastava, a gem of someone with a terrific strategy of bringing all splendid women together


A unique thank you goes to the other two pillars Riya Kumar and Ria Singhal as the core team members of Fuzia’s world.


In case you are seeking out the actual inspirations, you are just in the proper place.

Thinking wherein you may hook up with fuzia’s “She world of talent fusion”, well, your social media accounts can quickly help you meet and greet Fuziaites. You can make use of your Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Google plus as well as your LinkedIn account to log in to Fuzia.com

© Sheela Joby

12 Ways To Keep Yourself Beautiful and Younger

Maintaining your younger self could be a big-time pain these days. The harsh weather and drastic climate changes also make it very difficult to keep your younger self-alive.

So today, in 12 extremely easy and natural steps I will tell you how to look young and beautiful.

  • Lol, like literally

First and the most important one, smile wide and laugh your heart out, there’s no medicine better than inner happiness. If you are happy inside, your skin will love it and glow with radiance.

We know it’s difficult, but, don’t stop yourself from trying.


  • Go Green in your diet

Include a lot of green vegetables in your diet, they are brimming with vitamins and are super healthy, from avocado to kale to spinach, eat everything, they are fibrous and help your skin glow.


  • Include Essential Oil

Eat oily fish, Salmon, and some other oily fish have DMAE (dimethylaminoethanol), it’s a compound that enhances muscle tone and is always found in expensive anti-aging skin creams. If you will eat oily fish twice a week, it will be equivalent to those super expensive creams.


  • Caffeine for your Eyes

Perk up your tired looking eyes by placing tea bags under the eyes. It will help in lightening the dark circles and prevents puffiness.


  • Hair Care

After a certain age your hair starts to get thinner, one should always pay attention in Volumizing their hair. You can add volume by using mousse, blow dry your hair, etc.



  • Protection from the Sun

Sunscreen should be your best friend; exposure to the sun is the root cause of skin aging, hence, without fail, wear sunscreen every day. Know your skin type and chose the best one for you.


  • Say no to Smoking

Cigarettes are the enemy of your youth looking skin. Banish them from your life, even passive smoking and you will see the results yourself. Smoking not only damages your lung but is also very harmful to the health of the skin. It destroys you inside and outside. Avoid them as much as and as soon as you can.


  • Avoid Alcohol

Much like smokes, alcohol also has skin aging properties; they make your skin look feeble and tired. They are also capable of dehydrating your skin, thus reducing moisture from the skin and make you look old. If you can’t avoid them completely, reduce the intake.


  • Maintain your body Weight

Skin stretches when you gain weight or if it’s unstable, that makes it look saggy; your skin loses the elasticity and might look old. Therefore, make sure that your weight doesn’t fluctuate much.


  • Get Enough Sleep

Make sure, your skin gets enough rest every night. Take a good night’s sleep, as your skin repairs itself while you are sleeping, making you look fresh and glowing in the morning. A lot of studies has suggested one must get an 8-hours of sleep for radiant skin.


  • Exercise

It is very important that you exercise at least 3-4 times a week. It helps in preventing the youthfulness and you would look much younger. You can choose any form of physical exercise to be it, dancing, yoga or swimming. Exercise helps in proper blood circulation that ensures that you look young and beautiful, always.


  • Meditate

Last, but not the least, meditation, relax your mind and soul. Thus, reducing stress levels. Take out time daily for relaxing your facial and body muscles; this will make you calm and serene in your hectic daily schedule. If you will practice this daily, you will see the lines of stress and tension disappearing. And, who would not want a botox and surgery free life.


So, here are with easy and pocket-friendly anti-aging solution for your skin. Try them out and let us know if they came in handy for that perfect, radiant, and fresh looking skin.

© Sheela Joby